Open Thread: Queen In-hyun’s Man Episodes 11 & 12

Welcome to the Open Thread, everyone! I luff – luffluffLUFF – this phone booth scene, which is why I had to have it headline our post today. Melt. 😍❤️



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This includes, but is not limited to, how characters &/or relationships develop, later in the show.

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Without further ado, here are my reactions to this set of episodes; have fun in the Open Thread, everyone! ❤️

My thoughts

Episode 11

It takes Hee Jin a while to figure out that Boong Do is indeed real, and is indeed right there in 2012, but she does figure it out, and this episode works out to be so satisfying and squeeworthy. Eee!!! 😍

It’s hard to watch Soo Kyung tell Boong Do that Hee Jin has a boyfriend, and to therefore leave her alone, because while it’s technically true that Dong Min is dating Hee Jin, she didn’t actually agree to this version of events! Well, not consciously anyway?

Gah. It’s complicated, isn’t it?

I was so hopeful, when Hee Jin follows her gut and runs out there to look for Boong Do. She really does have a passionate nature, and I can’t help but feel touched by her earnest desire to find Boong Do.

So how sad is it, when Hee Jin gets to the phone booth in the park, and doesn’t find Boong Do there?

Show really had me going for a while there, with Boong Do showing back up in his study in our Joseon timeline, and Hee Jin heading back to the awards venue, alone, in that taxi, but PHEW that Show’s just teasing, and they’d met at the park after all.

AND! They’d even shared a long-overdue, tearful, heartfelt hug. YESSS.


My gosh, what a rollercoaster of emotions. And I’m so happy at this development, that I’m not even mad at Show for teasing with what had felt like a sad version of events.

Boong Do’s plaintive question, as he looks at Hee Jin with sad eyes, “Did you follow me here?,” makes me heart wobble, no lie. And I find Hee Jin’s tearful, overwhelmed expression in response, so affecting as well.

It feels like the two of them have gone through so much, and have overcome such difficult odds, just to find each other again. Ahhh. I’m so, SO glad that they’re together again. 🥲

How very responsible of Hee Jin, to tear herself away from Boong Do, to go back to the awards show (Soo Kyung should be proud), and how handy, that Boong Do’s amazing memory makes it easy for him to remember Hee Jin’s rattled-off address, so that he’ll be able to meet her again, in a couple of hours.

Of course, I didn’t expect Boong Do to be sitting in Hee Jin’s living room waiting for her, either, and how like Hee Jin, to start getting out of her uncomfortable formal wear, before registering that he’s sitting right there, and she’s undressing in his direct line of sight.

Muahaha. Boong Do’s twinkling eyes tell me that he’s not sorry at all, that this accident happened. 😆

On a more plaintive note, my heart can’t help but go out to Hee Jin, when she tells Boong Do that he doesn’t know how it feels to be the person waiting around, not knowing when he’s going to return.

I just love how Boong Do hands over the talisman to Hee Jin without hesitation, even though that’s literally his only way home.

He has so much trust in her to keep it safe, even though she’s a bit of a flaily mess in so many other ways. That’s quite remarkable, and really quite swoony.

It’s a bit of a bummer that Dong Min shows up right about then, and eventually causes such a ruckus, but I can’t deny that I got quite the thrill, from seeing Boong Do essentially throw down the gauntlet, and thwack Dong Min into submission with the very golf club that Dong Min had tried to hit him with.

And, it feels like some form of poetic justice, doesn’t it, that Dong Min gets himself locked in the shower stall, in exactly the same fashion that Boong Do had once been locked in the hospital shower stall?

I feel a bit mean for saying this, but I got a fair bit of gratification, from seeing Dong Min getting imprisoned like this. 😅

Backing up a bit, I do so love that little conversation that Boong Do and Hee Jin have, while Dong Min was working to dry off his clothes in the bathroom.

When Hee Jin gets all huffy at the historical record that she’d read, about Boong Do being set to marry the Prime Minister’s daughter, the way Boong Do asks if it’s ok if he takes responsibility for her, is so matter-of-fact and swoony, at the same time.

And when Hee Jin asks him how he plans to take responsibility, his answer is so smoothly matter-of-fact, “I’ll come again after considering it, how I should take responsibility. Just to see Queen In-hyun’s face, I risked my life to come here. What else can I not do?”

Hee Jin’s right. Boong Do really is a natural-born player. Like, all the words that come out of his mouth are so effortlessly swoony. 😅

I can understand Hee Jin’s reluctance to allow Boong Do to go back to his Joseon timeline, because what if something prevents him from coming back to 2012 again, right?

So I can understand why she’d take custody of the talisman, and check him into what looks like a pension. At least this way, she knows where he is, and assured of seeing him again the next day, after all.

But gosh, the way Boong Do looks at her so plaintively, and asks if she means for him to sleep there alone, in a strange place, is heart-wobbly stuff.

The fact that Hee Jin’s able to pull away from Boong Do’s kiss, and inform him that she’s got her head on straight, and needs to be practical and solve the mess that they’ve created, is quite impressive, honestly.

And, she even quotes him back to him, reminding him that he’s said before, that her impulsive personality was a big problem.

But ahhh, Hee Jin’s no match for Boong Do’s heartfelt smooth lines, is she?

“Looks like I forgot to tell you something.. That impulsiveness of yours is very attractive.”

Well, that just cut down Hee Jin’s last line of defense, it looks like, because this time, when he kisses her again, she gets up on her tippy toes – and then her tippy toes get on his toes – so that she can lean into his kiss, as close as possible. Omona.

Squeee~!! Flail. Swoon. 😍😍

Episode 12

Love is in the air this episode – but so is uncertainty, and danger, and.. it’s a lot to process, for our sweet OTP.

Gosh, I want nothing more than for them to be able to live happily together in the same timeline, but it looks like there’s quite a lot to sort out, before that can plausibly become a reality for our happy couple.

In the aftermath of all that lovin’ (rawr 🔥), I’m glad that Boong Do and Hee Jin get to have some fun couple time together, before reality comes calling.

It’s so cute that Boong Do’s now much more savvy when trading in his family heirloom sword, and is able to finally get a fair price for it.

And how endearing is it, that the first thing he wants to do, now that he has money, is to buy Hee Jin whatever food she’d like to eat? Aw. He’s a sweetie, he is. 😍

I sniggered appropriately at the various miscommunications between Hee Jin and Boong Do.

First, we have her misunderstanding his handwritten hanja for a letter, when it had been her address (ha!), and then, we have her sending him to the store with a grocery list, written in English, just so that he can understand what it feels like to be dealing with a language thing that he doesn’t understand.

It’s played for laughs, but it does bring out some of the practical gaps that exist between them, I feel.

It’s great that Boong Do’s such a quick learner, though, and I find it super endearing that he spends all morning learning how to ride a bicycle, just so that he can take Hee Jin for a ride out to get coffee.

Awww. And it really does look like they have an adorably fun time too, out on that bicycle ride.

That is, until Hee Jin pretends to throw the talisman into a nearby fire, thereby low-key sending Boong Do into a panic.

Again, it brings out the pathos inherent in their situation, because as it stands right now, there are no guarantees that Boong Do would be able to stay in Hee Jin’s timeline, to pursue a serious relationship with her.

It’s just really awkward that they aren’t ready to talk about that, because Boong Do can’t hide the panic in his eyes, when he thinks that he’s maybe lost his only way back to the Joseon timeline, and neither can Hee Jin hide the disappointment in her eyes, that he’s not ready to stay.

That just creates this layer of pathos that neither of them can really ignore, I think, and I feel that that does mar their happy bubble, unfortunately.

Back in Joseon, Lord Min Am’s still scheming to kill him off, and now that he knows about the talisman and how it works, I worry that he’ll find a way to trick Boong Do into actual mortal danger.

Eep. That’s would not be good.

This is where I’m with Hee Jin, in wanting Boong Do to just stay in 2012, from here on out. 😅

And in the present, Dong Min’s throwing such a fit over being snubbed by Hee Jin (and humiliated by Boong Do), that he’s a Royal Nuisance, in every sense of the word.

Worse, he takes it out on Hee Jin, in the most childish, degrading way, by spraying her with water and throwing that cushion at her – on top of complaining to the PD, and demanding that Hee Jin’s character in the drama be killed off.

Sigh. I hated watching Hee Jin be humiliated like that, particularly since she really didn’t do anything wrong. 😔

Poor Hee Jin. It just feels like she just can’t ever catch a break – aside from meeting a dreamy sweet man from Joseon, that is.

And I do love that that sweet man from Joseon makes that phone call to Hee Jin from that phone booth, and asks her to spend his sword money for him, while making the most swoony confession that I might ever heard.

“I should stop using a pay phone now. I don’t like to keep wearing other people’s clothes. Nor do I like that every time I see you, we have to hide in the countryside.

I hope to find a house near where you live. Of course, I’d not only need a hand phone, I’d need some clothes as well. That money should be enough, right?

It’s because I said I’d take responsibility for you.

To take responsibility for suddenly interrupting your life and making things difficult for you, just becoming your boyfriend temporarily… or buying you an expensive car… or spraying water at that friend… I realized that it’s not enough.

I realized that to take real responsibility is to stay always by your side.

What do you think? I couldn’t come up with any other conclusion.”

Oh. My. Goodness. How very swoony is that?!? I’m speechless, is what I am.

He’s basically saying that he’d like to stay in Hee Jin’s timeline with her, long-term, and the enormous implications of that, and how that reflects just how deep his love is, for her, just has me in a swooning puddle. Faint.

I’m with Hee Jin on this one, when she answers, with that sheen of tears in her eyes, “It’s an extremely… an extremely good conclusion.”


Also, I really appreciate that Show gives us that flashback to Boong Do’s meeting with the monk at dawn, where he’d gone, while Hee Jin had been asleep.

I find it very meaningful, that Boong Do’s desire to live in Hee Jin’s timeline, isn’t only to do with his love for her.

It also has a lot to do with how he, as an individual, struggles to find meaning in life, when he already knows how all the major events turn out, thanks to his visits to the future.

It actually makes sense, that he would find more meaning in living in the future, where he as yet does not have insight into how things will develop and turn out.

I’m really glad that Show takes the time to fill in this part of Boong Do’s thought process for us, because it makes his desire to live in Hee Jin’s time feel more balanced. Like, yes, he’s doing it for her, but it feels so important, that he’s doing it for himself too.

We end the episode on a note of foreboding, though, with Hee Jin saying in voiceover, that the end of their chance encounter, is drawing nearer.

Ack. I so, SO don’t like the sound of that. 🙈

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1 year ago

Just caught up with this. What an adorable pair of episodes – the chemistry between our OTP is so sparky and they are so comfortable skinship-wise in the telephone booth! I know angst is around the corner but for now I enjoyed the cute moments immensely.

I read on dramabeans that while their relationship is supernatural there’s a lot of natural beats to it, for example when Hee Jin tries to get a sense of their future and asking Boong Do if he would stay. And when he was so upset over her possibly throwing the charm away, they both portrayed it so well – her hurt and his discomfort at realising he wasn’t ready to commit to staying. Then again what a huge commitment it is to decide to stay!

I really did like the philosophical bent as to why he stayed. It wasn’t just for Hee Jin but his own life too. It’s true that if you know how things will pan out, will you really appreciate life? People always say they want to be able to see the future but I didn’t realise honestly how boring then it would be. This show does bring up these philosophical bents nicely amidst the drama and the romance! So well done.

1 year ago

This has been a little drama joy in my life. I appreciate having something so light, fun, and bite-sized to enjoy. A few short comments:

(1) Has the gayageum ever been used to better effect? I am loving the comic soundtrack (an equal to that from Grapevine IMO).

(2) The humor in these episodes was spot on; I especially loved the very specific and oh-so-wrong directions about cooking the carre.

(3) Seeing Jang Won-young as the put-upon director is nostalgic for me as Let’s Eat was one of my formative dramas.

I am lucky to have the show on my computer to get next week’s episodes in on a long flight. I also plan to rip the bandaid off watch the last two episodes of Sound of Magic.

1 year ago
Reply to  j3ffc

J3ffc – I am so glad that you noticed both soundtracks. I agree with you – very well done! Grapevine’s is so appropriate and Queen’s is such a good fusion.

Ele Nash
1 year ago

Argh! Flaily-flail and heart-eyes aplenty 😍😍😍😍 Oh, I was a little taken aback how Boong-do kept her in that little apartment – but, ooh, in a totally good way!! It felt very believable. I mean, wouldn’t you rather stay there tip-toe kissing Boong-do than go back to dreadful Manager and even dreadfuller Dongmin?! I mean, no contest 🥰

Oh, but while the carre cuteness and delightful bike ride warmed my soul, the rest of the characters made me want to throw my own cushions 😡 Blimey-oh-riley but that Dongmin is even worse than I thought possible. The treatment of our gentle Hee-jin (and the hypocrisy as she brilliantly reminds him) is phenomenally bad. I hope the show finds a satisfying way to make him pay – or at least face the fact his angry outbursts and humiliating abuses are unacceptable 😡

Now, I can’t end my comment on such horribleness, so I’ll join you by the phonebox on the top photo, kfangurl, and grin and swoon at their epic loveliness 💓😅

eda harris
eda harris
1 year ago
Reply to  Ele Nash

now, dongmin. yes, we are plenty annoyed by this character, but i must say, i do like the actor making us feel this way in such a convincingly-nasty way. so for me it’s like a love-hate relationship, not to the character specifically, but in general, as an important part of this drama. we would not appreciate good without bad, and vise versa. therefore…

1 year ago

Fangurl – I forgot to mention that I LOVE this drama! 💖💖💖💖

1 year ago

Fangurl – great review! When she put the talisman in the drawer I got worried, and I immediately remembered feeling worried on previous watches. 🤣😅 I loved the get-away scenes and the English misspelling and I wished that they could stop time and just stay there.

Okay, so I have to be honest and say I forgot exactly how much of an a$$hat Dong Min was with the way he treated Hee Jin. Sheesh! I took notes on this: JerkHan Dong Min is out of control and needs therapy. He has definite anger management issues and it is not good.

One thing I noticed that there were some set designs I really loved in this drama. Besides Min Am’s calligraphy screens, I also loved that wall mural of chrysanthemums! Just loved it! They were so well done.

Last edited 1 year ago by phl1rxd
1 year ago
Reply to  phl1rxd

Phl – yes, Dong Min is exactly that. A good piece of acting by Jin Woo during those scenes, too.

I am finally well and truly into my watch re From Now, Showtime – superb. There are so many great moments and the leads are awesome together. So, thank you for the heads up on that one.

While I think of it, take a little look at the CDrama – Lady of Law. It’s my favourite show at the moment.

1 year ago
Reply to  seankfletcher

Sean – I am glad that you are enjoying Showtime. I wait for it each weekend. I heard about Lady of Law. I will check it out tonight.

eda harris
eda harris
1 year ago
Reply to  seankfletcher

sean and phl, (and may be anybody else who would know)

of course i love this drama, if you missed it – i can confirm it again and again.
but… i am again asking for your assistance, if you can come up with it of course.
so i am watching the rebel princess, a good and worthy drama, (and phl, the otp is getting close to nini and chen kun, although of a totally different feel and character, but very satisfying, and of course nini and chen kun’s chemistry will stay for ever out of this world for me).
but i discovered the actor purba rgyal, (the second prince, who staged the uprising to take over the throne). he’s tibetan and apart from liking his acting quite a lot and wanting to see his other works, his “tibetaniasm” really exited me, as tibetan culture, philosophy, religion, way of life, and the people themselves were on my radar since my 20’s (and that was very long ago). tibet was the first asian culture in it’s entirety that i really got attracted and enchanted by. and it was the first gateway for me to learn about Buddhism and the dalai lama.
so, then i discovered his movie prince of the himalaya from 2006. it is actually an adaptation of Shakespeare’s hamlet, but it is in tibet, so that was enough to light my curiosity on fire. i am dying to see it, but can not find where i can.
please, help me out, if anybody knows anything about it.

1 year ago
Reply to  eda harris

Hello Eda

I was intrigued by your comments re “Prince of the Himalaya” – so I went looking and found some very good reviews. Variety and The Hollywood Reporter gave it a very good wrap.

Then I came across this very good post:

It would seem, based on what DK Fennel says here, Prince is considered quite highly, Purba made one heck of a debut, and is shown very rarely through special viewings – which also means little chance of it ever being on-line.

Of course, now I want to see it myself 😊

eda harris
eda harris
1 year ago
Reply to  seankfletcher

sean, thank you for being so wonderful and always replying to me.

yes, i did see some information and reviews about it, which only increased my craze to find it somehow. i even called the rubinstein museum in hopes that they would have some information, but they did not know where and how i can see it.
if you or anybody else, ever finds anything out about the movie prince of the himalaya, please please let me know. i am seriously insanely craving to see it.

meantime… if you want to see my source of inspiration (the actor purba rgyal) – his acting impressed me and his micromanaging of his facial expressions is well deserving a closer look and appreciation. i am talking about the rebel princess, that’s where i discovered him, he’s the second prince.
it does not seem that you saw this drama, but i can tell you that it is a very good historical drama, although 68 episodes can scare anybody, but for you it should be a peace of cake, as you don’t just “eat” a show, you swallow it or better yet, you probably inhale it in a few breaths, ha ha, (you still did not disclose your secret).
anyway, i am still in the middle of this drama, but the more i see, the more i like it. although it is not without disappointments – with all the hype of the biggest budget ever, it does not live up to my expectations, especially that the costumes (the fabrics of the silk garbs have very modern geometrical designs many times, and the raised patterns on the silk – i never saw it before, although it is quite popular today.) also their hairstyles are too simple for that period, and so do the jewelry peace’s, even the empress does not stand out). which is really strange, as the director as well as the art director are the same as in ruyi’s love, which by my estimations is the top in overall beauty of every detail.
there are a few other details which i am not going to go into, but in general it is at least on the level of nirvana 2 and more.
and the actor i am talking about is only on screen for half of the drama, (but intense), so you can just check him out, almost anybody can handle 30 episodes or so, right?
also, you tube has “snippets” of it, of course far from satisfactory in any way.
let me know if you do decide to watch it or some of it, i would like to know what you think about it.

Ele Nash
1 year ago
Reply to  phl1rxd

Yes, when she hid it in the drawer I was like, oh no, don’t tell me Dongmin is going to find it somehow and destroy it 😲 I really stress at the number of times they pass it between each other 😅 What if she drops it and it falls in the fire or blows away in the wind and Boong-do without the talisman disappears?!

1 year ago
Reply to  Ele Nash

Ele – I almost hollered out loud “No, don’t put that talisman in that drawer!” when she did it. Thank goodness she took it back out.

1 year ago

I had forgotten how much I had enjoyed the scene with the c-a-r-r-e 😂🤣😂😉